Coming off as TOO effortful will also count against you. Normal people don’t go all out for someone they just met or are just starting to meet.

These are good second date ideas. Might want to keep it simple at first.

If you are looking for ideological purity, step zero is therapy.

You think most people have Sunday bible groups?

Really? How many people around you have one of those?

That pile of dirt is going to walk and talk around for a while. And then it’s going back to being an insert pile of dirt.

This is what I find crazy. Where are the AI bros chewing through the Epstein files?

Yeah, this is literally it. There is either evidence and that’s the end of the argument, or there isn’t and you’re just having fun talking about ghosts.

Maybe he needs to think of better tests then lmao

Because money. More classes more money. Less common skill set, more money.

You shouldn’t have bent the knee if you didn’t want to suck and swallow.

How cute. They think the things billionaires say for ammo in the evential lawsuit are actually true.

They give zero fucks about you doing that. Sue them instead. And recycle that shit.

It is up to them to learn from their mistakes. That’s how learning works.

Honestly? I would back out of this entirely and just enjoy the friendship. Personally, I would feel manipulated regardless, I dont like the idea of friends with an agenda for me. What I believe is my business.

If she starts it? Sure, that’s a different matter. That’s how you avoid sounding preachy. By not preaching.

You need to add something like ‘american sorry “crocodile tears”’

not a big fan of 'appeal to authority ’

Literally glazing the guy sloppy style and basing their whole world view on a single random dude. Sorry, on ‘the smartest guy in the planert’.

Gravity is just a theory

Ah I see the problem. I opened a thread with the word ‘quantum’ on it. Lmao

Make sure she is actually interested in watching or learning more. It can come off as very preachy and grandiose what you’re doing.

I’d say you didn’t put enough work, I kind of agree with the other person. If you care, you show it in actions. Words are just words and are very easy to say. They don’t defeat fascism, they don’t hold a friendship. Actions do.

However I don’t think that was the issue here. It was a huge mismatch and it does sound like your views weren’t compatible. I don’t think it would have been fair to ask you to put in that effort if it doesn’t come to you naturally either.

But the reality is, without work relationships wither.

Because free for you doesn’t mean free to run.

No it doesn’t. Action matters. Not thoughts and prayers.

I’m not sure 'in runs on unpaid labor’s is the flex you think it is.

That’s just a cute way of writing ‘it runs on exploitation’