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Cake day: April 20th, 2024
  • Eol@sh.itjust.workstoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•Was he (51M) making a move? (26F)
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    4 months ago

    Go for it if you’re into it. Be careful not to get used. Stand your ground every time it arrives if he makes you uncomfortable at the least. Be aware. Don’t drink alcohol.

    Just some things I’ve learned along the way…

    …also make sure he’s not married. That’s how dateline episodes are made.

    You are your own protector. Always.

    Also don’t take money from him… Sometimes people will spend money on you or “care” for you or “protect” you as a leverage to get sex out of you. They’ll guilt you.

  • Eol@sh.itjust.workstoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•Has there ever been a compilation of suicide notes, if so, where can one get it? And is it a good idea to get it?
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    4 months ago

    I don’t think it’s only that people fail their goals. Society is structured for a specific type of person. If you aren’t that person you’re just left to drift while life moves on without you. For me personally it’s that I’ve lived my life around people that don’t let others live and be their best self out of tradition. I’m pretty confident when it comes to getting things done, but there’s no point when you’re shit on for existing and manipulated because your aren’t like the other traditional people. Id rather KMS then fake who I am for money or manipulate another person for business. I’m still trying to find a path. But it’s hard when you don’t have a safety net of money or socially. Sometimes you have to leave everything behind and only keep the necessities to see what really makes life beautiful.

    “Will power” is not a thing. All people are not the same. The “American dream” really is not accessable to everyone how it’s traditionally laid out. Some people are lucky that that lifestyle fit their make up. Others a doomed to suffer if they try to keep up with that lifestyle? And if different for everyone. You can’t raise every kid the same and most are unaware of how they can royally fuck a kids life up because they lack that understanding.

  • Eol@sh.itjust.workstoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why western people seldom use "please"?
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    4 months ago

    Does it really mean anything? If you’re a respectable person isn’t it implied? Thank you as well. People should be able to see the thankfulness… Too many assholes fucked up use of please and thank you trying to look good when they aren’t being good. Now sometimes I see it as a sign someone’s trying to take advantage or hide their true self.

    I say it in newer company but I don’t know if I say it to often to people I know.