Ha ha. No, it’s a tropical fruit with white flesh and a table tennis ball sized seed in the middle. The flesh is crunchy, fresh tasting and subtle both in sweetness and perfume. It’s a very refreshing fruit but not as juicy as a watermelon.
Good article and photos here. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Syzygium_malaccense
It’s sexist because you wouldn’t risk asking a man to smile. It’s disrespectful because you don’t get to control another person’s facial expressions. It’s intrusive because you disrupt another person’s thoughts with your selfishness. You aren’t the centre of the world. Other people get to have their own feelings and since women are people that includes them.