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  • Most people find honesty disarming. If you say “I’m socially awkward and I feel nervous around you. It’s got nothing to do with you as a person. It’s an issue of mine and I’m trying to work on it. I’m sorry if I’ve made you feel uncomfortable or otherwise upset you” she will probably accept that. And this is something you should be working on, BTW, although only you can really say what form that should take.

    As some others have said, do not mention her looks or your crush.




  • My hot take is that, of all the intensifiers, “literally” is the one that makes the most sense.

    What are the options? “Really”, “actually”, and “literally”. What do they mean?

    • Really: like reality
    • Actually: like reality
    • Literally: like literature

    So if you’re trying to say that you’re scared rather than that you actually soiled yourself, which makes the most sense as a sentence: “I really shit myself”, “I actually shit myself”, or “I literally shit myself”? It’s the latter, right? Because (most) literature is fictional. And reality is reality.

    I mean, none of it really matters because, as you say, the “rules” of English are just cobbled-together-nonsense. But to take the “you don’t mean literally because you didn’t have shit up your back” people at face value and apply their logic - “literally” makes the most sense.

    Somewhat related - if “flammable” and “inflammable” can both mean “catches on fire easily” so that “doesn’t catch on fire easily” has to be the ridiculous “nonflammable”, then there’s no reason why people can’t use “irregardless”. No, the construction of the word doesn’t make strict logical sense. And…?










  • There’s a few wild leaps in logic, here.

    Firstly, we know of life evolving once. Just one planet. In the entire universe. We can postulate that with such a vast universe (and possibly multiverse) that it’s probable that other life exists elsewhere, but we don’t know that. It could be a unique event or an incredibly rare event. We can’t say, because 1 is way too small a sample size to extrapolate from.

    But you’re not even extrapolating from 1 datapoint. You’re extrapolating from something that you think might be true at some point in the future.