It’s super specific to your state of physics - I weight close to a ton two month before birth but I was never skinny and I ate a lot of sugar. My neighbour, a skinny slim person, was being pregnant at the same time and it wasn’t visible if one hadn’t known it. It could have been a “food baby” even a month before giving birth.

Try to figure out, what your expectation is, why are you worried about people noticing? I guess it’s not easy to hide a pregnancy and it might keep you from enjoying it. If “the people” find out about it you could imagine yourself in a Taylor Swift way - everyone is talking about her but no one actually knows the truths of her life.

Take care, all the best for you and the baby 💗

ok fair, I’m currently planning to sell my car because of finances so I’ll rely on our public transport to be fine (except DB). Seems annoying to have to do the same test but in a different language. My neighbour doesn’t finish her driving license for the same reason, so at least you’re not alone with this 🫠

Do you study on your own? I study as well in my spare time and it really helps me so much to stay on the “timeline” with learning if I co-learn with someone in a zoomcall. It just motivates me to learn if I see someone doing their shit I guess 😅 and maybe you can plan a drive to somewhere beautiful as a reward for yourself?

(unaskedforadvice, sorry)

Finances. Coming out of a full year with paid sick leave into a job that’s only half the time and ergo half the money as before (but also less money than sick leave was, had a fulltime job before). But I can’t work more due to health issues. Gotta have to figure out my finances asap to prevent it to get worse. Been there done that, but this time my mental health is reclaining (solo parent while full time working since 15 years) and it feels heavier this time. But I’m gonna get over this 💪

I feel like I’ve found ✨️my people✨️

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