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  • Norah - She/They@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRule
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    6 days ago

    I honestly am uncomfortable with the level of black and white thinking you’re displaying. What you’ve said here is far from damning, and the fact you’re accusing her of pedophilia (which to me means sexual contact with a minor) off the back of it is kind of really gross…

    Least of all because I’ve seen stuff that people accuse of being “loli hentai” that is literally just a couple of fully clothed high school age girls kissing. When teenaged cishet couples in media can get away with way, way more than that. I have seen a trans fedi instance get shut down over that sort of “loli hentai” by their registrar. When that’s just age-appropriate queer representation in media :/

    Edit: I will say that I have not looked into this myself, I am only replying to this comment specifically.








  • I personally think this is a cop out. Obviously people would have been outraged either way, but personally my only issue is about how it was done. The whole point of the FOSS community is openness and transparency. The senior maintainers of arguably the most important FOSS project trying to operate secretively on something like this has shattered my trust in them, as well as many others.









  • Yeah absolutely this. I’ve seen too often in trans spaces when these sorts of accidents aren’t given any leeway or grace. We’re all human though, and it bothers me when folks are put down when there was zero malicious intent.

    My mum deadnamed me more recently, despite me being out for almost eight years now. But she called me my older brother’s name first, then deadname, then Norah. She was mortified, and apologised profusely. How could I hold any ill will against her for that?