i find it very useful and would like to know if there is an implementation for it on xfce, as well as how it performs.
I used it on i3wm without problems. Just install and use it
I use it for seeing/replying to texts on my desktop. It works great for that with xfce.
Im pretty sure the app works everywhere but i think you need additional software for a status indicator
It does, and I’ve never seen kdeconnect-indicator packaged separately. I’m pretty sure it depends on some KDE packages though, so maybe OP wants to avoid installing them for some reason.
You will almost certainly be able to use KDE Connect under Xfce. However, some dependencies will most likely be installed during the installation, which in turn have their own dependencies. With a bit of bad luck, you will install half of Plasma, so to speak.