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On Android and IOS, i like Snikket.

On desktop, Gajim

I usually name mine after songs that I happen to be listening to at the moment.

Ranger, mostly for bulk renaming

I use it for seeing/replying to texts on my desktop. It works great for that with xfce.

I don’t have any experience with it, but there is a project called mopidy that I believe can play from many different services, including local music and spotify.

Jellyfin, I’ve run mine for a couple years now(ever since the pi4 came out) and it’s been great. The only thing to consider is turning off video transcoding, its not able to to transcode anything HD or over. Other than that, its great. I use it for videos and music.

Wut

Yes, i have used tailscale. I just use wireguard alone because I find it has better performance in my experience.

Lemmy Jellyfin Wireguard so I can access my home network from outside

All three are easy to manage(so far).

My main gripe is with movies. After a while, the simlar video recomentaions are filled with “Free with Ads” movies. I don’t even watch movies on Youtube. Its annoying.

I usually have to clear cookies to get rid of them.